RE: Am i wrong?
Bamac22,
Most of us, have been through, or are going through exactly what you are feeling.
I hated the way I looked without hair so much I truly believed my life was over.
I don't mean like suicidal, but I just thought that was it, I'd spend the rest of my life hiding away or under a hat.
I even sold my house to pay for a series of operations, having my head cut open and hair moved about.
That was 20 years ago.
Believe me, a bit of glue and a few more hours in the bathroom is nothing compared to all that discomfort, expense and disappointment.
Yes people will say we're crazy and being over dramatic about our hairloss. Who cares what they say?
All I know is that I've had a great time the last 20 years and I wouldn't be able to say that now, if I hadn't taken the plunge and started wearing.
I got my life back.
At the time it was the last thing I wanted to do and I DID have anxiety in the first year of wearing.
But looking in the mirror, and liking what I see with hair, has kept me going.
My regret is that I didn't start sooner.
I believe the longer you do nothing about it, the bigger the anxiety gets and the more difficult it can be to keep perspective about it all.
So in my opinion, the answer to your question is "Yes, you are wrong".
Doing nothing and letting your fears paralyse and depress you is wrong.
How many personal success stories have you ever heard where the the narrator says "I found myself with a problem, I did nothing at all about it and it worked out great in the end"????
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