Great post Hersute! What you said applies to many things that people have opinions on, many of them uninformed.I had a girlfriend once who had suffered terribly at the hands of her former boyfriend and so we had some relationship issues.Many of my well meaning friends just assumed she was a bitch and told me to get rid of her without knowing even the tiniest details about what she had been through,people just love to assume.

Drew100 it is entirely down to how YOU feel, you are in possession of all your thoughts and feelings that had led you down this path, you really only have one question to ask yourself, are you happy with how you look now you have the piece?

If the answer is yes then you have nothing to worry about.