Hi folks

This will probably be a bit long, so I apologise in advance for the essay,

I'm at present 29 and I plan on 2012 to be the end of my hair issues. I'm not saying it will be perfect but I want to 'move on' finally.

Well, I registered here a few years ago and mostly as a reader of the forums with the intention of wearing hair. I had been considering this option for about 3-4 years as I seen my locks moving further back and now in the past 2 years thinning out a lot.

I wore concealers for a bit but I got fed up of them and as the hair diminshed, they were most likely looking obvious. I was a norwood3.5 (nearing 4)

So I ordered a couple of wigs from a long-debated rival and that process was tedious, long and nearly drove me off the whole hair-wearing game, but they arrived after sometime and I felt a mixture of emotions.
The hair sat in the box for about 1-2 months before I opted to do anything about them. I was a bit of a wreck, everything from the cut-in, ordering glues, thinking it would be too difficult to obtain a great look and to the in's and out's of wearing a cool haircut. Sounds a bit bizzare but I was all over the place.

So I went and met a great woman who did my cut-ins and applied the hair to the head. I felt great but extremely nervous. I left the salon and hoped it would be my new life of hair, yet it lasted 12hrs on my head.

I walked down the busy street and I must have looked possesed - I stared at everyone's eyes to see if they were looking at my hair. No one did and on a busy Saturday afternoon, I passed many people, haha.
Although, I felt great, I was very nervous. I took the train home again no funny looks from anyone or the train conductor who I spoke to for 5-10mins about sports. Nothing happened.
Although, I did begin to feel slight movement at the front and maybe it was a bad gel/glue that I applied but I didn't feel totally confident and there was small lift at the front.

I had arranged to meet a friend that evening for a beer and my journey to his house was when I began to have the fear. My stomach began to churn, I started to feel uneasy and a bit weak. I arrived at his house and he smiled, said nothing about my hair apart from ''Funky doo!'' as I hadn't spiked it up for years (my trademark was spiked hair at the back before it got thin) and never did he stare at my hair, and believe me, I was paranoid, but somehow my head started to bulge and I still felt ill. I was so nervous about going out and meeting people in brightly lit bars with hair on my head. I stayed for one beer at his house and decided to go home as I had a pumping headache.
10mins after leaving his house, I felt fine. I knew this was because I could go home to my house and not seen anyone and not feel aprehensive.
Once I arrvived home, I decided I wasn't ready to wear hair.
I even managed to take it off that night which added more so to the decision as I felt that the strong glue (either it wasn't applied well enough) wouldn't even hold the hair on properly and with an active lifestyle, it re-affirmed my belief that I wasn't ready to wear.

So the hair came off and I shaved my head. I was going traveling in 4 week so I lived like that for a few months when I travelled and shaved with a razor once a week, to be honest, I don't mind the bald look and I think I look ok with it and received some compliments, but after some months, I became bored of the look and felt I could not wear the same clothes I used to wear, I missed having hair and felt that I wanted to have hair again. I tried a few things a 1/2shave, even a mohawk but a mohawk, is more a temporary fun hair style.

So, hahaha again sorry this is taking so long and really boring to read but it's a nice way of venting and opted to grow my hair in again. I decided to cut the sides and grow the hair on top (to give the impression of hair) it looked ok ish but again, I am now a NW3.5 so I missed a hairline and i went back to wearing concealers.

And then it went full cycle, my hair upto a few days ago was back on top but I was pent up throwing money on concealers again, taking a stupid amount of time just to get ready to go out face the world, pumping lots of hairspray on and even then, one guy said to me ''Looks like fake spray hair'' to a friend about me or something similar, which was the killer final blow that I need to quit these concealers and I was busted.
I also knew, I wasn't happy wearing them - the money, the time consuming, the grubby mess of a white shirt/pillow, the anxiety of being busted (especially in a brightly lit area).

So I shaved my hair at the temples and now have a mohawk (again).

OK, I will finish up soon (again thanks for sticking with me, if there are any readers still out there
Now with 3 days to 2012 - I've slowly returned to my old lifestyle of hats, concealers and now after desperation really, I shaved my head at the sides.

I am going to give hair wearing a real go and I feel much stronger mentality even from 1 year on about it. I know it's a last resort for me also as I cannot return to concealers again, my hair is thinning to much and they look terrible.
I have a perfect timescale as I am working from home at the moment so I can wear a few hats for the time until my hair starts to grow back and in 1-2 months, I will begin to wear.
Slowly the beanies will be replaced by hats then to me with hair again, and ifanyone even asks, how can you grow your hair or anything, I feel confident to say that it is a system, I want to have hair and my natural hair is losing so this is the final option.

Finally, I want to say to anyone on the fence. Go in with an open mind. I know it is not going to be plain sailing and I know there will be many highs and a few lows with wearing but life is short, do not waste life and time worrying over things that are outwith your control(mostly) hairloss. With a system, I feel it is the best option for those of us who want hair without the risks to our health and with toplace, these great forums and the internet, the world is my oyster.

I looked forward to hanging around and learning as much as I can. I will need to re-order new glues, tapes and I will order a new wig from toplace - My current one is possibly too much density at 75% and go for a 65%.

I'd also encourage anyone who's been living like me to if they can, take 2012 by the horns and decide that this is the year that your worries and time used up by worrying about a process we can't control to take control of it.

Thank you for reading and thank you for such a great website with tips and hints and topics for people who were aprehensive and nervous, with the great posters and tips here, I feel I am READY to wear!

Here's to 2012, folks