Hey,

I also lost a lot of hair early on and while it's not fun at any age, I think it's a bit tougher being so young.

Your specs sound about right... though my own experience is the poly around the edges is not always 100% undetectable to the touch.

So maybe start with that until your familiar/comfortable with attachment then move to all lace.

You will be amazed at the outcome though. I'm a typical cali blond surfer dude, mid 30's and most guess I'm early/mid 20's now.

Tof