Glad you guys liked this style. I think both of these styles are some of my best yet, and Toplace are making some great systems.

CB1 Wrote:No I'm not joking. If you truly broke up with her then yeah, it didn't have anything to do with the wig.

I think when you are wearing hair for a few years you will realise how insignificant the whole thing is. Hair wearing just becomes like washing the dishes, it's not something you'd really think about unless you have to reattach or do a template. And it's certainly not something that is going to cause emotional problems or relationship issues. It really is a non-issue after a while.

CB1 Wrote:But with all due respect, who are you to call her insecure? If you, I or anyone else here were secure with ourselves, we wouldn't be wearing or contemplating wearing rugs. Tisk, tisk. You would think that someone who knows what it's like to be insecure would be a little more compasionate instead of jumping ship when the going got tough.

Just keeping it real.

Yeah, it's a fair comment. I do know what it is to feel insecure, I know all about it. In the period before I got my hair system I was feeling very insecure about my hairloss problem and I had noticed that women weren't very attracted to my balding head. The thing is, no matter what insecurities we have in life, at some point you have to find a way to overcome them. I no longer feel insecure at all about my hair because I've gotten a hair system. I also used to feel a lack of confidence, and I used to drink sometimes to help with that - but in the last six years I've used meditation to solve my other confidence problems, and I've done a lot of intensive meditation courses and this has also really helped me (I should also note that it has helped me to relax a LOT about wearing hair, and usually I forget I'm wearing hair thanks to the meditation). I don't even need drink anymore to feel great about life, I just accept reality as it is and keep my mind clean and free of fear and negativity as much as possible.

I have a lot of compassion for people who suffer from insecurity, believe me. I will do everything in my power to help them, and to show them that there is a way out. For three years I gave my girlfriend everything I could, as much love as I could, as much compassion as I could. But in the end she kept on creating more obstacles for herself and making herself more and more insecure. Maybe in helping her I was making her more insecure, I honestly don't know. But if someone doesn't want to overcome their insecurity and move on... what can you do???

I still feel compassion for her, I'm sorry if it came across that I don't... but I do still feel a lot of compassion and love for her. But she chose to keep destroying her mind so I had to get out of there if I wanted to "stay on the wagon" myself, because she was starting to drag me back into a place that I have long left behind. My opinion is that life is really short... don't think it isn't. Before you know it you'll be on the way out, so you simply must follow your heart and find the best in life.

Does that sound reasonable to you?