if you have a decent hairline u could wear a partial lace piece just behind it and it would be basically undetectable and provide easier maintenance. the advantage here is that u don't have to deal with any hairline issues that other wearers deal with (mediocre attachments, sweat loosening some of the hairline, dirt/dust that is sometimes collected right at the hairline, etc). Otherwise you will just have to get a topper like everyone else and most of the time (if you get good at attaching) you will look/feel much better than you do now. you will certainly have bad days where you don't look your best, and you may even obsess that others know and get down on yourself, but you will have days (hopefully more than 50%) where you feel like a million bucks and that this is the real you.