09-21-2013, 08:41 AM,
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Trooper01
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RE: Military/LEO Transition
This a tough one?
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09-22-2013, 07:15 PM,
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Baldrich
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RE: Military/LEO Transition (PHOTO)
Your photos are too small and blurry to be able to tell much. But yes, a lot of people on these forums are young active guys who regularly do gruelling sweaty activities, and manage to combine them with wearing an undetectable hair system. Personally I am a fairly serious competitive cyclist and mountain biker, and I also scuba dive and wind surf in my piece, all without any real problems. A certain amount of forward planning and a bit of compromise are required, but nothing you can't get used to.
Unfortunately you have put your finger on an unspoken truth about transplants - they may look OK when they are coiffed and gelled, but as soon as they get wet and plastered down the illusion of full hair dwindles, and oftentimes the transplants themselves become detectable.
It sounds like you have some self-esteem issues connected with your hairloss. It is harder to have been good-looking and lose it because of baldness than never to have had good looks in the first place. A hairpiece system can reverse that process, but you have to remember that we are talking about superficial things here. You are not weaker or less of a man because you lost your hair, and don't let other people (or your own psyche) convince you otherwise.
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09-23-2013, 04:10 PM,
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Trooper01
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RE: Military/LEO Transition (PHOTO)
Thanks for the kind words rich
Now I see a lot of photos with travolta and his obvious exposed lace hairlines ..is that as good as it gets? I feel like if given the proper opportunity and being very regimented , a master of concealment and a bit OCD I could make something work
To be honest I didn't have a problem till I switched from Merick propecia to generic 5mg propecia and cut it up as suggested by my clinic who said they were the same exact thing ...obviously not and my surgeon is very well known and recommended
Troop
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09-24-2013, 05:56 AM,
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Trooper01
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RE: Military/LEO Transition (PHOTO)
Rich, out of curiosity ...
I live in a house by myself, have a lot of girls over and cook for them ect. I have one big bathroom. Where do you guys keep your systems and gear. Out of sight out of mind? Like locked in your safe or something haha
I know a lot of woman are nosy and rummage around in stuff when you are not looking . Any particular method you use to keep that situation from happening
Troop
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09-24-2013, 01:09 PM,
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Baldrich
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RE: Military/LEO Transition (PHOTO)
Ha ha their little fingers get everywhere, don't they. I live with a girl at the moment, and we've been together for a few months. She knows I have had a 'procedure' to thicken my hair, but the word hairpiece has not been mentioned. She hasn't seen me without the piece, and she isnt going to. Obviously I don't want her finding my adhesive or spare units. I have a lockable toolbox under the stairs, and I keep all my hair stuff in it. The stuff I use for de- and re-attachments is in a shoebox inside the toolbox, so it is handy to lift into the bathroom. In the bathroom itself I keep some glue and some tape in a wash bag in the cupboard under the sink. The glue is in a small hair gel bottle, and the tape is in an Elastoplast box together with some real elastoplasts. That is my travel / emergency kit.
You should be ok since it is your own place. Lock it up is my advice.
The other thing I've learned is, when you have been travelling and you've just got home, you have to remember to take your hairpiece stuff out of your suitcase and put it away, otherwise little inquisitive fingers will be into it LOL. That happened to me once.
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09-24-2013, 01:39 PM,
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Trooper01
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RE: Military/LEO Transition (PHOTO)
Live with a girl for a few months and your hairline has been undetected ? I have certainly been fooled by what I perceived wearing was all about. The fact your up in someone's face for a few months and aren't outed is impressive and speaks for itself...
I think most of us from the outside looking in are uneducated , and as long as people expect things to be obvious the better it is for a system to look natural and go on undetected
Gotta get a little bit of an evil smile when you outdoo a bunch of guys who are working with a lot less ? That's got to be a bit of a rush/high
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