Hi workeded,
I'm in Melbourne and used a guy in South Melbourne and Richmond for my cut ins. In my time wearing, I used to use the standard salons like AHS and Ultrahair. But their have either become horrifically expensive or no longer do it unless you buy their units.
I don't use a frontal/partial, as I'm way too far gone for that (nw6), but my suggestion would be to get a piece before it becomes too obvious as this will make it easier to transition without there being a significant change to your hair.
I heard people comment that it is possible to get away with not telling stylist and the like, however I suggest that you can either tell them the truth (as i reckon they seen it all before) or say you have your own stylist and will have it done yourself before the shoot.
I think we all had various degrees of anxieties before we got our new hair, which is very normal. Although I have to say, if you're anything like me you'll be glad you did, and the anxiety you're feeling now will quickly evaporate.
Feel free to email if you think I can help any further
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Craig.