Just For Men is a different type of dye to most other dyes you can buy off the shelf.
The problem with it is that it just keeps on colouring.
Even their blonde colour will turn darkest brown if left on for too long.
Because it develops so quickly, its not really suitable for dying hair systems where you have to take your time.
To remove the excess colour, you need to use Goldwell Color Remover.
Its a professional product and very easy to use.
You can buy it through Sally's or ebay.
http://www.goldwell-northamerica.com/sit...r-remover/
It will even remove any colour that accidentally has stained the base.
Paul, the type of dye you are talking about and are used to using penetrates the hair. The peroxide prepares the hair by making it porous.
As you say, you control the depth of the colour with the peroxide.
They are permanent dyes.
Dyes like Just for Men (which is a semi permanent colouring) work in a different way in that they sit on top of the hair and create a 'mask' of colour.
Thats why they are recommended to hide grey hairs.
Using peroxide with Just For Men will only make things worse as it will strip away some of the colour and just leave the brassy tones.
Stealth, if you use the Goldwell Color Remover all over the piece it will strip out the colour you've applied and take it all back to one single colour and then you can start again.
After that, you would be better to use a permanent colouring system as Paul does, that you can control better.