Wow Mr Burns, that is a crazy story. I think if your girl was rubbing your perimeter join and you have a 1 inch overhanging flap of unattached lace, you can assume she knows you are wearing a wig LOL. I guess subconsciously you have moved on from the point where you are concerned about women knowing.

All the same, it was quite a high risk way of doing it. What if she had felt the edge and become completely distracted by the fact that you wear a piece, and you had to spend the rest of the evening discussing that, instead of more pleasurable pursuits (this has happened to me when I was wearing a hair club system in the early days of wearing)?

If you are that relaxed, wouldn't it just be better to mention casually up front - don't pull too hard on my hair, because it's a hairpiece?