Yesterday was my first day wearing ever and it was amazing. I just told people I got a new cut and color and was using a couple new products. Not a single family member or friend though any different. All they did was compliment me. I walked with confidence, didn't make a big deal out of it, and just went on with life.

My recommendation would be to do exactly as I did. The beard to clean shaven is also a very good idea for a bit of a distraction. The more you can make your over all appearance change, the less people will focus on your hair and instead focus on the over all package. You might even want to buy a new outfit. Something that you usually wouldn't wear. For instance, if you wear a lot of black/grey/white then get a colored dress shirt that matches your eyes or contrasts them to bring them out. This can make a big difference in your over all appearance. Have your dress shirt fitted by a tailor so you get that polished look. That's my two cents.