All I can say is, overcome your fears. Just do it! Play with the piece, work with the piece. With practice you'll get better and better. As long as you follow certain rules (like not yanking the piece off your head), then the piece should stay intact. My suggestion is don't be afraid. If it doesn't look right, put some alcohol or some kind of lace release on it and do the attachment/styling again.

Good luck!

Leamon