billw8tr Wrote:

hairagain Wrote:use a mist type leave in conditioner to tame it down.

I'm doing this (it's the only thing that makes it just slightly better)... it dries quickly, not a permanent solution...
Is there a product that gives you "wet" look? Worth a try.
Also, can I do my own knot bleaching? (I'm thinking that would make big difference).

I don't know how you guys expose you hairline, with this one, it looks... well.... not good at all...
Still freaked out (headache too)

Waxworks will give you that shiny wet look. Just like everyone has said, the first week or so with hair it will look "wiggy"...after a few washings it will look fine. Also, "heavier" hair is more realistic since it falls down more naturally.

Hope that helps a little. Don't worry about those feelings of fear, stress, apprehension. It's all natural. We've all experienced it. The first time I put on my hair, I almost cried. I emailed both John and Jrob with my concerns. They probably thought I was crazy lol.

It WILL get better. Play around with it. Get Waxworks (or the generic version at Sally's Beauty Supply). Put in some gel and style it with a brush. See what happens.

Good luck!