Tom mate,

I think your approach is best for your personality and mine is best for mine. What i was disagreeing with is when you say that if we dont make our wigs known to everyone, we are being fake and ashamed. To be honest I think your basing your strategy on a premise of fear from the outset. I think if people have seen you before your hair replacement and the change is drastic and obvious, then your approach is best, to the people who know u already. To all other people who u meet first the first time, telling them at every chance you got, is a strategy mainly based on fear. Thats my opinion.

As you said, the only important thing is u are happy.

Sam