Sam...I like your post you directed to me. Very funny!! And you make some good points, including about taking it too seriously. We will have to get that beer when you visit the U.S. But what I meant when I said it's okay to deceive others is when they ask you DIRECT questions like the following (all of which have happened to me in my 17 years of wearing):

(In a group of blokes , all with thinning hair) "Man you're lucky you still have all your hair. Is it real?" or "Man you're lucky you still have all your hair. What's your secret?"

(After getting a new piece that is noticeably longer than the one you wore the day before) "Man your hair grows fast. You get extensions?"

(After getting a new piece that is noticeably more dense than the one you wore the day before) "Your hair looks different. WHat did you do?"

(In front of my late 30's aged friends who are all going gray while I wear my full cap with no gray). "How are you thirty-nine and have no gray?"

dino