Alot of this stuff is due to shame. I mean if your piece came off, you would feel ashamed? Question yourself why...its due to feeling less than others, the embarrassment of the situation. We as humans, are not defined by our hair, physique, intelligence or whatever. We are too comlex for that, by wearing you are challenging other peoples views. Hair is just an accessory, something that makes you feel good, but it doesn't define your happiness.

It's all about attitude dude, most women don't care about appearances, just keep good hygiene and a sense of style. look at the amount of ugly guys with hot women...and these guys aren't excessively wealthy. But with the right attitude and an ok feeling you get from wearing hair, the world is your oyster.