I never really felt bad about it. Or like guilty about it. I can understand when u first go through the transition your hair is going to look different to people who see you everyday. Especially if the system really changes the poofyness of your hair. You have to be a little slick. The way I did it was change up the hair style a little bit. Only u know how your hair looked before the hair system. I really dont know the diff, because i have never seen any before and after pics, so its hard to give advice. I made my transition ok, even though my hair looked much fuller with the system then with the concealers. But after some time people forget, its only in the very early stages people might notice a difference. What I told to some people who noticed with me, I said i was using hair thickeners. But u can do other things. Lets say your hair was longish and combed forward. U can cut it short, and spike it up a little bit, You keep it more on the wettish side to not look like it is over dense. and instead of thinking wow whats that, they will just see a change of style. just have to use a little common sense i guess. If thats the right word.