what is a good leave in conditioner? and I think I like the style gel type products give in that it clumps the hairs together a little bit, I like that look for a spikey style. The wax works doesnt really do that as much. The axe spiking putty does it but without making the hair too hard.

Has anyone tried the american crew light hold gel? does that make the hair less stiff and crunchy?