Aside from Male patter baldness, I lucked out and developed Alopecia in the back of my head. I get a quarter sized patch that will fall out in about a week and then it will grow back white first. this has been going on for about 2 years, but it seems to be settling down. I get the color evened out. When my hair is damp, the color seems good but when it dries, its noticably different. I don't want a lot of crap in my hair, A little hair product is fine but not enough to hide the color problem. This time I think they left the color on my own hair for too long, hence it too dark. Is there something I can use to lighten it up a bit? Getting the colors to match is tricky but its sohould not be impossible.