7thson; tight grip is not a white glue...you may be using super grip white glue or perhaps the new walker safe grip??
if you like the white glues, I would highly recommend walker's new safe grip (if its not what you are using now)white glue...if that doesn't work, you may want to try the ultra hold (not a white glue).
when cleaning glue off your scalp, put some PURE adhesive remover on your scalp and allow it to sit for a few mintures...the glue will be much easier to clean off and your scalp won't be so raw (hence the stinging). the pure if more gentle on yoru skin than the lace release or 99% alcohol.
I hope this helps!!
DebbieS.