wheresbaldo Wrote:Sure, the girls that I dealt with years prior think it's probably weird but at this age...I don't want those girls. I want one that knows vanity is the last thing to have on your mind...especially in a world of lust, abuse, and infidelity.

Dueling vanities -- there are also many women who [will] appreciate not having to compete with their mates for who has the best hair!

Vanity is a lovely millstone to be able to surrender, if you can. It frees up a lot of grey matter to devote to other things.