Thanks for your honest post. I agree, wearing hair isn't for everyone and I hope you will have a happy life as a bald man.
But if you ever get tired of the bald look, you should know that it took me about 2 to 3 weeks of "hard times" before I eventually relaxed and got the hang of wearing my piece. During those times I had thought like "this is consuming me", or "I am being paranoid" or "is it worth all the hassle".
The truth it that after the initial first month of wearing, things get drastically better. You start to relax, you develop better techniques, you don't feel paranoid anymore, and eventually you actually *really* forget you are wearing, and only remember it after a week when the thing needs to be reattached
Just my two cents.