Hi Baldrich ... Good to see you back, and thanks for the kind comments ! The last line made me smile broadly !!
Your last post there ...really well-put and I think you just put it ``as is`` ....... it`s a tight-rope act on the ` dilemma` of not telling someone early-on, but then , if/when things may be getting more serious, when exactly to do so [ and it IS best to do so] ...... you`ve got to put yourself in the other person`s shoes really --how would you feel if they revealed something about themselves which may be of ``importance`` to you, months after getting involved with you....you might feel, maybe, ` cheated`` that they took so long in trusting you...... what may / will ` bother` one person, may not bother another ....just depends on the individual I suppose .....cheers for now guys.