Hey there,

I have a lot of one night-stands. I have been wearing my piece for a few days now in total and had sex with it twice.

The first time I was so conscious of it that I couldn't really concentrate. Whenever he would touch the back of my head I would take his hands and put them somewhere else so he wouldn't detect it.

I also had trouble just putting my head on his chest, etc.

I am not too worried about detectability when it comes to other things but sex is one thing where I see a disadvantage at the moment.

So, I guess, here are my questions:

1) Which lace is the most undetectable when it comes to touch?

2) I am currently in Germany and the haidresser said that I should get 'Contactskin' because I could 'actually take someone home with me without worrying unlike with the lace bases' (well, I can't afford it). Is she right? Or could I get same results with one of Toplace's laces? The Contactskin kinda threwme off big time.

Thanks and please feel free to give me recommendations. I wanna master this!