Some really good points Hersute. Worrying and paying an unhealthy amount of attention to hair has taken up such a big chunk of my life, as it has with you and probably many others. Its gonna be difficult to change the thinking habits, as u say.

However, I am having issues with this system, the camera isnt picking them up. The shine is settling down, but the lace is starting to have a grubby look after just 4 days which seems to be making the lace more visible. I can only presume its the glue starting to break down. Its not helped by the hair laying flatter now than it did, as that seems to be making the crown area look bigger. The density on this is a good match for the rest of my hair as im quite thinning at the front. I think a higher density isnt gonna sit right,  but I just don't feel confident with the crown. I think the only way im going to be able to deal with that is maybe get a skin system. Maybe that would be a good compromise. If i know the crown is as undetectable as possible (no grid pattern or discolouring), I think I'll be a lot happier.

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Actually, the grubby look could have just been the hairs seemed to be clumping together near the base, also sticking to the base a little. I've just carefully separated then with a comb, which has helped. God! I really thought this wearing lark was going to be a doddle! Lol