RE: What makes you sad or down about wearing?
Well on the whole my life is so much better wearing than without. There are way more positives then negatives. But the negatives for me are:
Negatives:
1. Having to plan my life around my attachments
2. Not wanting to do activities that involve a lot of water, a lot of wind or wearing helmets
3. Ocassionally worrying that someone will spot something
4. Having to use a lot of product to get it to look natural after the first couple of weeks
5. The cost (Toplace prices are getting higher and higher)
6. Worrying about being exposed because of hospital visits or air travel security
7. Not being able to travel as freely because regular reattachments are needed and this means no 6 week backpacking trips with friends. Also the fuss of trying to ensure I have my glues and cleaners wherever I am going.
8. Being at the mercy of the factory and all their mistakes and having to wait many months at times to get a piece that I can wear.
But the positives are worth it:
1. I have hair
2. I look great and so much younger. I get mistaken for a student all the time, but I'm mid 30s
3. I wouldn't have met such a stunning fiance if I didn't wear hair
4. I wouldn't get much, if any, attention from women in general without wearing
5. I almost always feel good about my appearance when I walk out the door
6. My confidence is much higher
7. More opportunities come my way for work and social situations
8. I can play with hairstyles like anyone else can, and try different products.
9. I don't have to hide under hats
10. I can live my life again. My REAL life.
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