Totally understand the anxiety thing. I started wearing about 2 months ago. The hardest part is going from no hair to a full head overnight. I usually wear a hat so strangers and acquaintances never really saw me without hair. My close friends know I'm bald. The anxiety for me came from the transition. The hairpiece looks really good now (it did take a month to get it right, mostly because my sides were so short in the beginning).

I can say, I still have some anxiety but its a lot less now. If you don't show your front hairline, there's almost no risk of detection. There's no way the wind or anyone could take it off your head without serious injury.

The only insure I have is that the seams are noticeable to the touch but I've been using a stock piece and hopefully the custom piece I received this week will fit better so the tape doesn't bunch up.

Anyway, have fun with it!!