First of all I could never tell that your head was anything but a normal shaped head.
I also think its a shaped head/face that will really 'take' to wearing a frontal piece.

My suggestion would be to start off small, just bringing the front down 2 inches max (which will make a surprising difference) and then over time, order slightly larger pieces.

I promise you people will notice you look better, but won't realise why.
Its very hard for someone who is contemplating sticking something on to their head to believe that other people won't immediately notice, but its confirmed every week on this forum.

Re the head massage, thats tricky.
Its not like a quick grope. It would be a prolonged thing.
I think you'd have to fess-up on that score, just to save everyone involved from possible embarassment.