"It comes as a surprise to newbies, but actually you can get your piece to the point where it is functionally undetectable in everyday life, and it is not that difficult if you (1) use a good quality lace piece, (2) don't overdo the density, (3) opt for a easy-to-maintain hairstyle and (4) keep an eye on the color match. I think most people who post here achieve this, including me, so being busted is simply not an issue any more. "


I agree. If you achieve this, I think many women will not be too bothered by it. If, on the other hand, it is detectable...then that's another issue- and you can't really blame them, IMO.