im gonna be serious now.trying to look our best is a great thing it pushes you,but you also you have to be real.trust me life is not truly lived if you live with secrets.i know.its miserable.no matter what it is your hiding.you can not be real and true and present in your life if your holding something in,taking ourselves too seriously is one of the worst things we can do to ourselves.you are imperfect but thats reality.all of us are imperfect,we can work at making ourselves look like we have it all to the world in general but remember what someone thinks of you is none of your business.you cant go around proving who you are and what your about.as long as you have good intention thats all you can do.how others preceive you isnt something you can control.the world at large doesnt have to know anything but the people close to you the inner circle you shoud be able to say hey its no biggee,people that love you love you no matter what.love doesnt change with loss of hair and if it does its not love.period,its superficial,you should have a more going for you than a head of hair so loss of it isnt reallyyy a huge deal to people that care for you.dont let aloss of hair ruin your esteem.its not shameful


thinking somethings wrong with you is the most damaging thing you can do to yourself.wether hair or bald or whatever your good enough as your are,looking good is for you not anyone else.so dont believe your own hype and take yourself seriously and live life.look your best but hey if someone knows you have fake hair so the F what.it aint about THEM,its your life and you be happy with you,be comfortable in your skin and everyone around will be,self consciousness is an energy people feel.they examine you to see whats wrong,be confident that your fine anyway you choose.hair is just a bow on a package.its not who you are its just a decoration.own it.