i just have to say and this is with kindness,seriously please read my enttire post dont be mad.if someone lives with you they know,they know,yes they do they know,i promise so bring up the racoon in the room nobodys talking about because she has got to feel awkward.i mean sweet baby jesus how could you manage that.itll be a sigh of relief and bring you closer,there is no shame in losing your hair its genetic,do people look at an amputee as pathetic.even the best best hair looks like a rug in the morning,and im sure no one knows but you cant avoid sleep and people touching you in intimate enviroments.i wake up look like a cat licked my hair all night then decided to die.thank god a lil water and leave in conditioner and i put that cat to rest .bring it up laugh about it you dont have to ever show her it off,i dont, but its known wether called extensions or if long term i break it on down,itll make intimacy better you can let go and focus and not worry if hands touch your head,if you can go to bed with someone then you can tell them,tell something,whats the point if you cant relax and enjoy,cause im just sayin even the best would be off their game if they had to stop to bat down a stray hand coming at your hair.unless you handcuff your partner everytime and blindfold and go to sleep and wake up before you remove the blindfold and handcuffs they know.or they are blind or retarded,either way,if someone doesnt think your hairs been examined and touched inspected and eye spy a piece of hair that has a receipt while your sleeping,i mean seriously? hellooo can you not see her in bed while you sleep just staring at it,covered up eyes glance over then back again quickly prodding it with a stick.lol she probably has a name for it.so she knows get it out laugh and have fun,its not shameful i just says your taking care of yourself.its a frickin hair piece not a murder to cover up.