It's not about confidence. If it looks good, the confidence will be in buckets.

But BEFORE I can see it on my head for myself, I need to know whether it is likely to be the case. I did my research before going for it, and the result was good enough to buy a unit and go for a cut-in.

But once a person who does this for a living, wears himself and is well respected by the community tells you, that overall wearing is nowhere near as good as they make it sound on the internet forums, it gets you thinking. No?

And as for your innuendos, shove it in your shoes. Jeez...