Yea I understand what you mean, for years I worried about my hair then I decided to not care so much but I've got fed up with it always being such a struggle to look even mediocre.

I just figured to go for it, shave the whole top.I don't have a particularly big head and I'm going for a messy with a bit of length kind of look.It can only be an improvement on what I have so long as I can blend it well enough.I've had people jokingly say my hair is like a wig anyway, may as make it look better and actually be wearing one!

good luck man, I'll post pics if i'm happy with it!

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I should probably mention that I intend to have maybe 3 inches of length and would like to have as big a gap inbetween detaching/ reattaching as possible.What would be the best option for that?

Im sure I read the skin systems need to be taken off more often?

Would an all swiss lace topper be a good system to get?