I havent seen any shocking pieces posted on this site . I have been wearing for 8 months and have not had anyone give me that second look once , even when the attachment had not been at its best . Wearing hair really is no big deal , order a piece try it . If it works out great if it doesn't it doesn't . There are no risks in wearing compared to going down the surgery route . Before I started wearing I kind of said the same that I will only wear if it looks perfect but have changed my mind on that one no one ever notices anyway . These systems are a mile away from the synthetic rug that most people view as a wig , so when using either a skin or lace piece when there is the illusion of scalp showing no one is thinking wig .