Well I used concealers before I started wearing, but I have dark brown hair. I am not sure about color suggestions. The product I used was called prothik, It was a spray and was easy for me to apply and I liked the way it stayed in and looked the best. I guess give that one a try, I didn't like topik either.. dermmatch was ok. but kind of annoying to do large areas.. I liked it more for touch ups. or small spots like the temple areas etc.