hmm to be honest being gay is not that much accepted as you all believe or wish.
Its sad but its true. I have someone in my circle of friends who is gay and the majority dont want to deal with him. Of course not openly, direct or behind his back, its more subconscious.

But he really acts like a "sissy" or a "queen" so maybe thats the reason.
I dont know but the thing what i want to say is, that in the younger generations the topic "being gay" is not really accepted like you all wish.
Mysteriously lesbians dont have this stigma