Garaboy, i hear ya as far as dramatic change, however you can get it cut pretty short at your cut in. I am not sure what less than 65% density looks like but just cause your nearing forties dosen't mean you have to look it lol. I am 44 and I know a whole bunch of people my age that still have this type of density in their real hair. I have worn a baseball cap for many, many years before I got my piece, actually still wearing it at work but now removing it during the day some and only have gotten a few comments, mostly people just saying and asking why I always wear a hat we thought you were bald. So has been positive so far, just not ready to lose my long time security blanket at work just yet but have gone out to stores, restaurants and such without it. As in my posts and quite a few others it is simply amazing the years having hair takes off your looks. Without a cap I have been looking 10 plus years older than my age for a long time so why not finally look 10 plus years younger with hair. I basically lost my 30's cause of being bald so gonna finally enjoy the rest of my 40's with hair!