I'm just going to put this out there and you can make of it what you will!...

KY Jelly.
It really works on hair!

If you don't want to use that, Pomades are good for getting the wet-look and are usually water based, so easy to clean and no oils to attack the glue.

Here's something from a Mens Grooming site:

"Pomades: These products can be either water or wax based and are used to add shine while maintaining a pliable hold. A pomade will give a wet, shiny look and is a great option for a sleek, well groomed style. This product is also great for shorter, texturized styles where shine is desired and can also give shine and separation to long hair. Most pomades can be too aggressive for fine hair and can make it look greasy and limp. To properly use a pomade, apply a small amount to the palm of your hand and rub them together until your hands get warm. Work the product through slightly damp to dry hair. I recommend washing this product out of your hair before bedtime as excessive accumulation of the product can clog pores and harm the scalp."

There is also some good information on traditional products that are good for wet-look:
http://artofmanliness.com/2011/02/16/you...ant-shine/