Just get something with a matte finish. American Forming cream i think would be good for what you want to do. I think its low shine. There are a lot of different products out there. Just have to try something different then gel. They have alot of matte products. creams and waxes etc. Just have to find the one that works best for you. I personally like products that have a good amount of shine in them. Helps with the color blend for me.