Just use a good leave-in conditioner....I`m not a big fan of `products` like gels/waxes/pomades..they can and do build up and you have to shampoo more often...a little Brylcreem `works`for me when I get the notion to use it...otherwise my fave. item is `Enhance`leave-in conditioner...sprayed on/into damp hair and allowed to dry naturally--gives a nice natural look and helps `hold` the hair. I`ve done several posts on it and one actual thread.. just have a look at these older posts etc..`` Enhance `` is refereed-to and links to suppliers in various countries, posted on the threads.. http://www.forum.toplace.com/search.php?...order=desc