st 30 tape and toppik ( no problem ) its not liquid you can carry as much as you want. put it in a side pouch of the suitcase.
ultra hold - get the small travel size one debbie sells and then put it on your carry on. take the label off of course.
the laceremover and fraychecker go to riteaid or cvs and get the travel size 3 oz travel kit. and you can put them into those.

personally i dont put any hair stuff in a checked bag, i travel quite often and theres all too many nightmare stories of people loosing bags for days at a time.. i had my bag lost about a year and half ago going to australia with all my supplies and it didnt show up for 5 days! that was the first and last time i put the essentials into my checked bag.

tsa rarely asks (although that has happened to me too with the ultrahold and i tell them its for atheltes foot.) if you are that nervous go out and buy some small travel size bottles of like pantene pro v shampoo or something along those lines, empty them out and put the stuff into those.