Hi Chet... are you in the U.S.? If so you should consider ordering this conditioner--it`s a really good one and reasonably-priced. No build-up with it either....I find it really keeps the hair nice and soft ..it also has sunscreen in it. They ship using U.P.S. which is a bit costly to places such as Ireland [ about 40$] but I ordered 3 bottles of it and a bottle of lace-release as the shipping cost was the same as if I got just one bottle. You can use it quite liberally ..... I dampen the hair and spray this in... style the hair and allow to dry naturally and it tends to `hold`the style. I seldom shampoo my system unless I was sweating and then it`s necessary to wash the sweat off the lace [the acids in sweat will damage any base after a while--even poly materials get pin holes from it] but other than that I just mist it with water and use `Enhance`. It might be worth changing your conditioner. I get nothing other than soft-feeling hair with `Enhance`...... Paul.