Sorry if I sounded terse, but it wasn't intended to be at you.
It was meant to be directed at the culprit that had the mentality to be so, thoughtless & inconsiderate at best and down right nasty at worst.

Luckily, I'm past the point of caring who knows what about me, but there was a time when something like that could have devastated me and pushed me over the brink of despair.
Regardless, its still MY right to tell people what I want them to know about me, not someone else's.

And thats why I could never presume to be dismissive of this type of behaviour.
Nor could I speak on behalf of others and say "who cares?", because it only takes a modicum of empathy for your fellow human being to appreciate everyone has a right to privacy in this sort of circumstance.