(09-05-2011, 02:49 PM)jordo06 Wrote: As a gay man, I will say the scene is so much about appearance! It's a catch-22 for gay guys... you need to have hair, but if your hair is not real you seem weak. Lots of guys are about appearance at first, but many just "play the gayme." I am only 28, but have been balding since I was 16! Most of the dudes I have dated, were awesome guys who didn't care... however, there have been guys who I know would, so I passed them over... if they cared that much, I figured I did not want to be with them anyway!

THANK YOU for saying what I was thinking but couldnt be bothered going into the detail... That is so right with the gay population and its lame ass... We're finiky about appearance like women yet we lack the sympathy and respect for others feelings (most of us anyway) and that's whats giving me grief and why I posted this thread.