Thank you all for commenting your rather deep insights. Its been a very interesting read!

I agree, hair should not wear me and I dont intend to let that happen. If someone would find out, then so be it, I'm going to be okay about it at the end. But I just prefere to keep it for me. When I get into a relationship I will at some point, when I feel its going the right way, tell her.

Thank you all.

With kind regards,
Pete