And that someone with "impressive looks" finds you appealing is very validating. Unfortunately, the part of the brain that registers validation is wedged uncomfortably next to the part of the brain that feels (and anticipates) rejection. Lots of interesting psychology to comb through, or comb over. :lol:

At the end of the day, though, if there's no gray cell connection, the relationship is not going to last very long. Dare I say that it's easier to add hair than it is to add IQ points.