Have you put knot -sealer on it yet ? If not, you can `train` it pretty easily and use a bit of gel too as you say.... freestyle are pretty easy to work with.... it becomes more difficult though once the knot -sealer has been applied as it `locks`the hairs into whatever direction they happen to be in when you apply it..... until knot-sealer is applied, you can really `play around`with a freestyle...... don`t be afraid to have another consultation with the stylist too ..a slight little trim/thinning there could make a difference too....the early days of wearing ----you`re naturally going to be VERY critical when looking at your new hair from every possible angle.... Paul.