I'm 21, and doing this in a couple of months.. grow some balls dude, things are way easier when you think of then in a sunny day in the park than at home alone at night.., things are simple.. you're going to get older and older and then die, all the people that surround you also, just enjoy your days dude!, and if you feel better with hair.. fucking put some hair in yo mofockin' head!, it is really that simple.. and if someone notices it then what?, just be smarter and clever than him, and say to him, yes, im bald as a rock and I wear hair cuz I don't like being bald, what's wrong?, I always laugh at people that like to put others down.. that is a sing of LACK OF CONFIDENCE themselves, and yeah, I'll be wearing hair in a couple of months, but my life is better than a lot of those guys even all... so who laughs no?

go ahead and try it dude, this is not like a ht.. there is a comeback if you dont like it (ht has a comeback to, but with scars maybe, but everything but dead in life has a comeback)

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(01-14-2011, 09:41 AM)LTB Wrote: Your worries are very natural and real and we have all had them,believe me on that one!
But what has been said is true,no bull!
These things are so far removed from what i thought and understood wigs to be.
You have to wear them to understand that and you very,very quickly forget you have it on.
If you have your density,color spot on with a good cut in and also a clean attachment which is so easy it is childs play, then there is not a cats hell in chance for anyone,and i mean anyone, even suspecting that you wear,even up close and personal.
Unfortuanatly we can all tell you but you have to bite the bullett yourself and wear and pretty quick you will feel a bit foolish for your concerns and worries.
That is in no way disputing or dismissing them because, as i say, we all had them and we all felt them for the first time.
I remember after i got it attached and i went out for the first time and walking down the street i just kept my eyes open to see who would look or worse point or laugh but nothing.
It really is true no one gives a shit really and you will be a bit paranoid for the first few times you go out and about but again that passes without you even noticing.
If you do find yourself worrying too much after a few days or weeks then reconsider if wearing is for you because to wear successfully you have to forget and live your life without even giving it a second thought.
That's the secret and all i can say is that you do soon forget you have anything on your head it is that natural.
Very best of luck and let us know how it goes for you and please stop trying to worry too much,nothing in life,especially hair is worth getting too worked out about!

So you're lucky that you didn't pass next to me after your first attach.. because I look at EVERYONE's hair when I am walking in the street, I am no obsessed, seiriuously, I am a happy and sympa guy who scores chicks every night, I just had a bad year when I started balding... but that was because I didn't know how good where hair pieces, and I though.. well, no hm, and no money for a ht plus I don't want to go to a surgery for the fucking hair hahaha, and also seing that propecia was harming me... = die bald. When I saw how good they were, I changed my mind to my normal state again.. ALWAYS happy, and life the life with no stress, smile and be kind to everyone, and most of the will be kind to you.
Good night friends

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I'm drunk so please forgive my grama errors