You don`t ``Need`` to send it to her--it`s your choice ..look at her site..all the links/information you need, including cost of her styling service are there [click on the `Services`link at the top of her homepage ]... you can find a stylist in your own locality if you prefer. If you wish to use her, you could arrange for John to send it directly to her once it arrives from the factory...she can do the styling for you and dispatch it back to you along with your products etc.. will save time and money on postage. It`s entirely up to you. If you are not having Debbie to style it for you, you will need to trim off a few millimeters of lace at the front hairline ..... I`ve posted pics of it a few months ago... just go down through the forum and you`ll find them. It`s not a major issue anyway. Paul.