dont use much products myself, but when I de/ re-attach I always put in some Fudge light-medium definition wax, just to make it a little dirty and more manageable. Dirty hair is more manageable. I don't add much cause it would look too greasy then. Sometimes, when I want to go for the wet/gel look, I use Tresemme Hair Mousse (Jojoba oil), very very very good... but don't over do it. I don't like to shampoo my hair too frequently but if too much product builds up, you'll have to wash it.